In the journey of personal development, I’ve started categorizing the people I meet into three distinct archetypes. I call them
Ryan never finishes what he starts. He has 47 half-written screenplays and three abandoned online courses. He is addicted to the idea of success, not the work.
Here is the breakdown of the Trinity of Growth. Ryan is the dreamer. Ryan wakes up at 5:00 AM not because he has to, but because he is genuinely excited about the possibility of the day. Ryan is the one who suggests quitting the job to start the bakery. He suggests the road trip with no destination. ryan reid bella
Bella often forgets herself. She is so busy taking care of Ryan’s ego and Reid’s stress that she burns out. She says "yes" when she desperately needs to say "no."
Reid builds systems that last. He turns "dreams" into "deadlines." If you need to get out of debt, write a book, or build a deck, you call Reid. In the journey of personal development, I’ve started
Why you need the Planner, the Builder, and the Heart in your life (and in yourself).
Reid can be cynical. He kills dreams in the name of "being realistic." He might never take the big swing because he’s too busy analyzing the risk of missing. He is addicted to the idea of success, not the work
Let me know in the comments: Are you a Ryan, a Reid, or a Bella today? If you enjoyed this, share it with the Reid in your life who needs to loosen up, or the Bella who needs a break.
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