And that, dear reader, is the only love that ever truly survives death. When you love with a Laa , you become the source of the love. You no longer need anyone to fill you. You are the fountain.
In one famous anecdote, a well-wisher offered to arrange a meeting with Laila. Majnun refused. "I have already seen her," he said. "I have already burned. What more could a meeting give me except another meeting? My love is complete in its incompleteness." ishq e laa
But consider this: every time you have loved someone who did not love you back, and you chose to feel the pain rather than numb it with bitterness—that was a tiny act of Ishq e Laa . Every time you wished someone well after they left you, without trying to destroy them—that was Ishq e Laa . Every time you let go of the ending you wanted and surrendered to the feeling itself—you tasted it. And that, dear reader, is the only love